Starting Over as a Hairstylist with Sher Smith
Morgan Franklin: Welcome to the
Aspiring Stylists Podcast with
Tracey Franklin. Where to begin,
grow and aspire to become the
best stylist you can be. Whether
you're thinking about becoming a
stylist opening a salon, or
developing your skills as an
experienced stylist the next
step of your beauty career
starts here. Each week we'll
discuss strategic ways to
design, plan and execute on
becoming a stylist that excels
behind the chair and above the
bottom line. Here's your host,
Tracey Franklin.
Tracey Franklin: Before we get
into today's episode, I want to
introduce one of my favorite
stylists Aveda professional and
educator Sher Smith. In 2010.
Sher graduated from the Aveda
Institute Knoxville Tennessee
where she lived and worked until
moving to Los Angeles in 2020.
Now three years later, Sher has
returned to Tennessee and works
halfway between Nashville and
Knoxville at my salon in
Cookeville, Tennessee Loxx Salon
and Spa. As I've watched Sher
start over in a completely new
area and build her clientele
entirely from the ground up. I
thought this would be a perfect
opportunity to share a
conversation for all my stylists
that are building a clientele
for the first time or starting
over somewhere new. So share to
catch everyone up. You recently
moved from Los Angeles to a
small town in Tennessee, or you
have to completely rebuild your
clientele. What steps did you
take before your first day to
make sure the transition was
seamless? And you were prepared
for success? Well,
Sher Smith: thanks for asking.
Hi, hi. Yes, I just moved to
Cookeville, Tennessee, and it's
quite a culture shock for Los
Angeles. And there are some
challenges I've noticed so far.
There's also some benefits as
well. Some steps to make my
transition a little smoother,
and being prepared for success.
I try to do my research ahead of
time. And when I landed on a
salon where I want it to be,
then I started learning about
the community. Where's that
salon located? Places in the
surrounding area? What is the
demographic of this area? What
kind of businesses are close by
what things would interest me on
a personal level that can cross
over and integrate into my
professional life? Yeah, so just
reaching out to different
businesses, even on social media
or looking through websites,
reading maps. A little nerdy
like that, but I literally would
pull up maps and be like, Oh,
how far is it from here to here?
Yeah. What is the range of Aveda
salons in this area? And looking
specifically a salon, a type of
salon that fits what I want out
of my career was important for
me too. So as I decided to make
a transition, I found a salon
that fit what I was looking for
and workplace. Awesome. That's
helping me feel more successful.
And yeah, and my career path.
Tracey Franklin: Yeah,
absolutely. So far, what's been
the most challenging part of
your transition? And how have
you changed your approach to
meet the challenge? Moving
Sher Smith: in general is really
hard, especially moving across
country that in itself is a
challenge. But here we're
focusing on salon life
specifically and career shift,
change, ebb and flow careers
move and change all the time.
Even if you're in the same
space, your entire career, it's
still going to ebb and flow over
time, I agree was so I think the
most challenging part is just
finding your niche and being
patient and gentle with yourself
while you go through the
transition. It's going to be
different everywhere. And me
personally, I have a plan in my
head and I overthink things. And
if things don't go according to
my plan that I've concocted in
my brain, then I'll get really
stressed out. And yeah, I'm
putting that pressure on myself.
Because it's not going as
planned instead of relaxing into
it. And just going through the
journey and just presenting the
best I can for myself
Tracey Franklin: and being
pleasantly surprised. Like I
find sometimes that when we try
to strategically play on every
aspect of a shift or transition.
Like we don't let any of the
magic in any of that unexpected
magic that kind of I think it
may change your mind. Like you
may have an epiphany along the
way and experience something new
and be like, Oh, well, maybe
maybe that's it. I'm so happy
that happened. So happy. It
didn't go according to plan
because now I have this, you
know,
Sher Smith: I have salutely
Absolutely. And that's
overarching even, you know, I
had some really great coworkers
and experiences in Los Angeles.
And you know, I've left that
space and I had those
experiences, but that's leading
me to the next step of my
journey, you know, to this step.
So yeah, it's overcoming little
things here and there and being
surprised about like, wow, I
didn't realize how much I had
learned or how much I had
benefited from this space. Yeah,
that I can bring to this space
and showing up. Well,
Tracey Franklin: I'll be honest,
when you and I first started
Talking about this possible
transition, I thought, How is
Cookeville going to compare to
Los Angeles? I knew that you
were experiencing this like
really cool aspect of the
business working with
celebrities and being in a very
fast paced very hip space and
like how could cook they'll
possibly compare? So why did you
choose Cookeville? Why did you
choose locks?
Sher Smith: Well, I've made two
major transitions from Knoxville
to Los Angeles, I made that big
transition. Yeah, I specifically
looked for certain things in a
salon, that would feed me where
I am in my career and what I'm
wanting out of my career. And
then I did the same thing, what
I'm looking for in my career
personally, and it's different
for everybody. Sure. So what I'm
personally looking for is
excellence in my craft in
leveling up and being in a space
that feeds me to grow and
elevate and develop myself to
optimum potential. And that will
never end if it does for me to
find a new career. Yeah, I
agree. So when I moved from
Knoxville to Los Angeles, I love
the Veda network. And I'm going
to remain in the Aveda network
and practice being innovative
stylists. Yeah. So number one, I
needed to find an Aveda salon. I
also was very involved in in
your coffee or over the past
several years. And I really like
the intercoiffure organization.
So I looked up and what is that
share? For people who don't know
people who don't know
intercoiffure is a hairdresser
organization and it's very high
level very elite. You can't just
join intercoiffure You have to
be invited and recommended. And
then you have to present your
work. It's like almost like a
Lifetime Achievement type
situation to be inducted. You're
pinned into the membership.
Yeah, yeah, it's just really
inspiring. And it's just such a
great hard working group of
people. And it's just really
good interconnectivity, which
kind of reminds me like Aveda is
an intercoiffure company. But
Aveda has that family
interconnectedness. And I like
that like me to community I like
working together networking, I
like being a unit, a family
within a corporation. So I was
looking for an inter coffee or
salon, which means it's high
level globally. And also
innovative salon and my former
salon was the only one that
popped up on the list. So I knew
that I was headed toward
excellence. And the more that I
learned about it, the more that
I realized this is definitely a
space for me. And it's going to
really help propel my career.
Yeah. Then when I was called to
leave Los Angeles for personal
reasons, family reasons. I was
looking for another salon closer
to Tennessee so that I can be
closer my family. And I didn't
necessarily, like decide to move
back to Tennessee. Proper, but
somewhere closer. Yeah. So I
looked at several different
salons around the country that
already know and admire and just
have different conversations
with people. And you know, you
and I have been vine following
each other's careers for years
and years and supportive of each
other. And so yeah, we had those
initial conversations, and then
I had conversations with other
salon owners. And I just felt
that Cookeville lock Salon and
Spa is going to be the place
that is going to fill what I
need in my heart and my soul as
a professional. It's going to
help me grow on my professional
path. It's also reputable and
has a high standard and I don't
deserve less than that as a
stylist. So I want to be the top
who is at the top of their game.
That's where I want to be
because I'm always striving to
do good
Tracey Franklin: hair. Yes, yes.
Well, I'm honored. I'm truly
honored. Thank you. Before you
started working behind the
chair, you were a professional
ASL interpreter. Now as a
stylist, you use sign language
to help connect the deaf and
hearing impaired to the beauty
industry as a stylist, why is it
vital? We share our interests
and unique skills. Okay,
Sher Smith: so we're gonna back
up a little bit and I'm gonna
give you some gentle
corrections. Okay. The first is
I'm still a sign language
interpreter. Yeah, like that was
full time career before I
switched into the beauty
industry. So being a hairstylist
is my second career. Yeah, but I
still practice my first career
as an ASL interpreter. And I
love that. Yeah. And yeah, we
just say deaf community. Okay,
servant deaf. Okay. And I am
passionate about the Deaf
community and have a very high
skill level and proficiency in
sign language. I don't interpret
as much anymore these days
because my sole focus This is an
behind the chair and hair world,
right? But I want to bridge the
gap. That's one of my passions
is bridging the gap between a
deaf consumer and their hair
service. Yeah, they're often
left out because of lack of
communication. They can bring
pictures, they can text. But
hearing stylists that don't
understand Deaf community or
don't know, the language will
often struggle even with
visuals. Maybe you like this
haircut, but you don't want
these bangs and sometimes little
things like that, even with a
hearing client as a hearing
person. Yes. Yes. So then you
have a deaf person who is really
specific about their hair, and
they really want a great hair
service. They can't communicate
that. Yeah. So I love being able
to let people know that I'm
bilingual and I'm able to fill
that and make my chair in my
space inclusive and accessible.
And normalize, hey, we're
hearing aids, hey, I wear
cochlear implants, you know, I
have an implant device. Okay, so
I wear glasses. You know, it's
like, let's normalize that. And
some people who haven't been
around it don't know when or
maybe afraid or maybe offensive
sometimes. And it's really like
no big deal. Yeah. So I just
want to always be a beacon of
advocacy and activism. Well,
Tracey Franklin: I think you do
a really great job of that. And
I will be perfectly honest, that
was one of the most exciting
things to me. We have not had a
lot of members of the deaf
community come into locks, just
I think, probably not knowing
you know, whether or not we had
anybody there that could
communicate well with him. And
now we do and it's just so
exciting. Thank you for clearing
that up for us. Yeah,
Sher Smith: absolutely. And this
county doesn't have a huge deaf
population. I already know a
couple deaf people here. Yeah.
And and community. And so we'll
be getting some Deaf people
along. Yeah, I'm
Tracey Franklin: excited.
Inclusivity is so important. I
want everyone to feel like they
can come into my establishment
and be welcomed with open arms
and be served to the highest
capacity.
Sher Smith: Yes, amen.
Tracey Franklin: How are you
leveraging social media to share
your work, find new guests and
rebuild your personal brand as a
stylist?
Sher Smith: You know, I'm in
this new town where I don't
really have friends. You don't
really know anybody. I don't
have like an already built in
community. Yes. So social media
definitely helps me keep in
touch with people, but as a
platform for my work in
leveraging that. I post things
that I like, or I'm inspired by.
So I'll post on my stories,
something that speaks to me that
I admire, or that I like doing
myself, so that maybe somebody
in the community that starts
following me on social media be
like, Oh, she likes to do
Lockrey twists. Yeah, he's
attracted to these styles. Oh,
okay. So he's just got some
great little natural textured
washing go posts. Yeah. Oh,
she's comfortable with that. she
admires that. That's me sharing
what I like and what I'm
comfortable with or what I'm
passionate about. Lately, it's
been curly hair on this new,
like, curly hair mission. And
yeah, because I've been hearing
the screams of we need help with
our curl, right? Therefore, I'm
like, I can help. Here we go.
Yes, yeah, so I've started
actively posting more curly
haired content. Also, I took a
social media class of Tatum,
Neil years ago. And one of the
things that I didn't quite
understand, but then once I
heard him talk about it was
using geolocation. So as I'm
learning Cookeville now I'm
using certain places that are
like hotspots where there's, you
know, in the back of my mind,
potential clientele, I want to
reach I want to target this type
of person, then I'll tag that
little area and talk that
business or tag that
institution. So really just some
ways of leveraging my social
media to reach people for now.
Yeah.
Tracey Franklin: So what about
education? You're a passionate
educator, how do you use social
media to leverage that part of
your career?
Sher Smith: Same thing working
with students or if I'm a class
taught let's throw out a real we
did this. I save more education
content than not post yeah did
so yeah, I feel like right now
it's kicking in Yeah, it's not
quite there yet. But when I get
a little bit more momentum in
this area back at Neil back, you
know, with a spire and logs,
I'll start programming that way.
I kind of get those wheels turn
in a crank and a little bit
harder with posts or reels or
information, tidbits. Yeah. And
education and also figuring out
what's needed and where do I
need to plug in?
Tracey Franklin: Yeah, It's all
great. So share, I think social
media is a great tool. But it's
not the only tool. What are some
other things that you do to
promote yourself and your skill
set? Yes,
Sher Smith: since I'm not really
a social media person, and but
I'm a very social person, being
in a new community. Personally,
I'm speaking for myself, and
it's again going to be different
for everybody. You're moving to
a new place. I'm meeting new
people all the time all the time
day. Yeah. So I'm working on
putting myself out there a
little bit more. Before I even
moved here. Like I told you, I
research the community looked at
maps looked up social media,
what are events happening in the
local park? Or what's going on
downtown? Are there any, you
know, different types of
specific events and show up at
those events and introduce
myself and meet people? Hi, I'm
a hairdresser. I just moved
here. I'm at Luxilon. Oh, I like
doing this just to let people
know who I am. And doing that
authentically, in real life in
person. And then also, just
simply ask, behind the chair,
somebody's happy with their
service at the end of the
service. Hey, friend, thank you
for honoring my chair today,
have loved having you in my
space. We've had so much fun,
because I'm new here. Would you
send someone to me? Yeah, I
would love to have more people
on my channel like you.
Tracey Franklin: I wish I could
bottle that intention and
sprinkle it all over everyone. I
mean, it's just the easy stuff,
the free stuff, the genuine,
authentic stuff. That is where
people want to show up. That is
where they want to help you and
you just simply look at him and
be like, hey, I really loved
spending time with you today. I
want more people like you. Does
that. Yeah. Do you have some
friends or family that you can
think of how many business cards
can I give you? Thank you so
much for supporting me and
welcoming me to this new
community. It's not hard, but so
few people are willing to do and
Sher Smith: simple and talking
about yourself to attracting the
type of clientele that you want.
I'm going to ask those people
that I genuinely in my heart,
really enjoy your day, not just
to say it just to get a pre
book, right? Because yes, pre
booking is important. But it's
not the end all be all,
especially for new stylist, or a
seasoned stylist. Newer
stylists, you can't really pick
and choose as much. But oh, we
took care of your amazing curls
today. They're so juicy and
find. And I'm so glad that you
love them and you're obsessed
with your curls as you should
be. Yeah. So tell your curly and
coily haired friends to come my
way. Yeah, it's that simple. So
Tracey Franklin: genuine to you
know, what is your advice for a
stylist that is considering
starting over somewhere
completely new?
Sher Smith: Hmm. I have some
good advice for that. Take it or
leave it. I think my first piece
of advice for stylists that
wants to start somewhere brand
new, is to be yourself. Be
authentic, all the way and find
your tribe. When I moved and
relocated to Los Angeles from
Knoxville, I knew that I wanted
to find my tribe. You know,
people say work life balance.
You know, I've said this before.
Yeah, I call it work life
integration. I love that. Read
it in a book and it just stuck
with me. And it's really
perfect. You know, work and
private life can overlap behind
the chair, and the chair can
overlap into your personal life,
Tracey Franklin: and usually
does anyways, organically
Sher Smith: no matter how like,
Oh, this is just work. And then
this is just home. Like we're
not two different people. We're
one person, right, many faceted
parts of ourselves, but we are
who we are. So if you're out
there and you're being
authentic, best advice, starting
somewhere new is find your
tribe. Find your passion your
people, for example, myself,
this is my journey, had to move
to LA and find my queer
community and my deaf community.
I identify as queer. I'm always
advocating activism for the
LGBTQ plus community. Also, I'm
fluent in sign language. And
I've worked as interpreter for
many years and very passionate
socially about the Deaf
community. But also I want to
serve the deaf community behind
the chair because I know it
fills a gap. Yeah. So moving to
a new space, finding in my
personal life, the spaces I want
to be in, I want to be in queer
spaces, I want to be in Deaf
spaces. Then I meet people and
then they find out who I am and
what I do, and they tell other
people, then I start building a
clientele off of that. It's
really wonderful. It's really
magical because you get to
combine your passion, I can
combine my passions, and not
only do I love my craft and my
career as a hairstylist, but now
I get to have the career that I
love and serve the people that
fills my heart that also extends
to not just deaf people but the
disability community. I think
that we always need to do
better, hashtag do better, like
in all situations, but I always
Want to make a safe space, an
inclusive space and an
accessible space for anybody who
has anything that's different
than what the norm especially in
a rural area where we don't see
many people of color, and I want
to be a space for that. And I
want to be a space for deaf
people. And I want to be a space
for a hijabi women who come in
and need their modesty
protected. Anybody who feels
that they don't have a safe
space. And I know that's one
reason I really wanted to
partner with you is because you
are very vocal about everybody
is included, no matter your
gender identity, how you present
yourself, what pronouns you use,
what hair texture, you have,
your What are your lifestyle,
religion, your cultural
practices are, you're all
welcome in the space. So going
to a new space, find a space
that matches your values. And in
your personal life, find your
tribe, because that's going to
fulfill you in your professional
space behind the chair. And
also, when your chairs built
with the people that you have
found that fit your vibe that
you're doing the kind of
haircuts that you enjoy, that
you feel proud about, that's
going to enhance your personal
life as well. That's my best
advice.
Tracey Franklin: I love it. What
is the most important thing for
stylists to remember as they go
through a challenging
transition, whether it be moving
somewhere new, or going to a new
Salon at a different price
point, or even building your
very first clientele?
Sher Smith: I think one of the
most important things is having
realistic expectations. defining
some expectations for yourself.
Knowledge is power, knowing what
you're getting into, you know,
I'm learning new people. I'm
learning new techniques and
culture. Each salon has its own
culture, even if it's within the
same company. Sure each salon
has its own culture in its own.
Yeah. So just being gentle with
yourself to let that unfold.
Blossom, how it's going to and
Tracey Franklin: find your place
within that. Yeah, yeah. So
Sher Smith: being patient with
that and just do you, boo, share
Tracey Franklin: thank you so
much for joining us on the
aspiring stylist. Where can we
find you on social media to
follow along your journey? Well,
Sher Smith: it's been an honor
to be here. And I always have so
much fun with you. So when they
get like time away and just be
in your space. Yeah. There's so
much fun with you. Yeah, same.
And so keep an eye on all the
growing things here at logs and
aspire and I can be found at
share flair on Instagram. Love
it. Yeah, thank you for
Tracey Franklin: Thank you,
Sher!
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